trust is not just given. trust is earned. trust takes time. trust is optional. trust means you're worthy. when you finally get it, or give it, its great and can improve relationships with friends, family, boyfriend/girlfriend, what have you.
when you lose it, that's a whole different ball game. i don't trust people easily. i'll be nice, i'll be friends, but until you prove yourself to be trustworthy, don't expect me to even consider trusting. it sounds bad, i'm aware, but it has also been one of the better decisions i have made. i used to trust people too easily and i wound up with crappy friends that used me, being pushed around because i was too naive to believe that someone could be so cruel. but you live and learn, you grow from your mistakes and you don't make the same ones twice. i have become a better person, with truer friends, because of it.
on the flip side, if you betray my trust... well, good luck and God bless. hope it was worth it because the chances of you getting it back are super slim to none. unfortunately, i have been known not to trust the same people once its gone...
moral of the story, it isn't nice to mess with people. don't use or abuse your friendships. be nice to people. the golden rule from elementary school, treat people the way you want to be treated. there is no need to lose friendships or hurt the people around you.
on the flip side, if you betray my trust... well, good luck and God bless. hope it was worth it because the chances of you getting it back are super slim to none. unfortunately, i have been known not to trust the same people once its gone...
moral of the story, it isn't nice to mess with people. don't use or abuse your friendships. be nice to people. the golden rule from elementary school, treat people the way you want to be treated. there is no need to lose friendships or hurt the people around you.
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